Abstract: In the gender view, the ethic puzzlement of political compromise originates from the partition and opposability of the categories such as the public sphere/the private sphere, male/female, the masculine characters/the feminie characters in the patriarchy. At present, its roots lie in the unity of the tool value and the reality value of political compromise in democracy. It strongly displays the opposability of the democracy, equality of democracy society and the autarchy, rank of patriarchy society. To ultimately end the ethic puzzlement of political compromise, one way is that free individuals develop full and at all-round in the market economy and democracy system;the other way is that citizens with different genders should all participate in political affairs.